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The Farmer And The Piece Of Straw That Made Him Rich

July 20th, 2010 Comments off

A millionaire made easy through giving!

There is an old historical Japanese tale about giving and it shows how we can receive the most extraordinary gifts when we’re giving and appreciative of what we already have.

Here is the story.

Once upon a time, there was a poor young farmer. Everything he did in his life never seemed to produce any wealth for him. He was totally broke with no money, no family and no food. So one night he sneaked into a temple and sat by the altar and in desperation asked the Gods what he was supposed to do.

“I have always been sincere and industrious, but all my industriousness never became beneficial to me. Where have I gone wrong?”

He slept at the feet of the deity after having put that question. In the morning, just as he woke up, one of the Gods of his dream appeared before him enveloped in a brilliant golden light. The voice of the God resounded in his mind.

“When you wake up in the morning, cherish what you have in your hand and go on giving it to others liberally as you proceed,” the God commanded.

The farmer was brimming with questions when he woke up but he tried to shake off his sleep and clear his mind of the strange but clear dream he had. However, he saw a bit of a straw in his hand. It must have remained on his clothes while he worked in his fields.

He nearly dropped it to the ground, but stopped for a moment remembering what the God said. He sat down again. And looked at the straw.

He sat still for a long time thinking what this meant. He had no clue why a piece of straw can be of any value to him. Then he saw a wasp flying around. It eventually landed on the tip of the straw. He caught the wasp and tied it to the straw with a piece of thread from his clothes. Now with a piece of straw with a flying wasp at the end, off he went on the path.

He had gone a little way when he found a small boy and his mother coming towards him from the other end of the road. The boy was weeping. When he said hello to the boy, the child noticed the straw that the man had with a wasp at one end. He stopped his weeping and wanted to have the straw. The farmer was hesitant to give it but then he remembered that God had asked him to value what we owned and also give it to others profusely. So he gave the straw to the boy. The mother was relieved as the boy stopped crying when he got the straw and the wasp. In return she gave the man three tangerines.

The man continued on his way. After a while he started feeling hungry and wanted to eat one of the tangerines. But he stopped short of doing it and remembered that he had to gift things to others, not give it to himself.

The farmer was going over a steep hill and on the way he saw a merchant sitting under a tree. The man had a wooden box near him. The farmer wished the man. He appeared to be very tired. He saw the tangerines the farmer held and asked him if he would give it to him. The merchant told the farmer that he was very thirsty.

The farmer was also quite thirsty having walked for a long time during the heat of the day but he offered all the tangerines to the merchant. The merchant ate the three tangerines and regained his strength. He was very grateful for the kindness of the farmer and opened the wooden box next to him. There were rolls of hand dyed silk fabric. The merchant handed him one roll, thanked him and walked off.

The farmer proceeded again through the same route. He finally found a rivulet from which he drank water and felt restored. He felt more energetic and comfortable and went on.

The farmer walked and walked not seeing anyone for a long time. He started to think that maybe this was it – his fortune. So, he decided to go to the nearby town to sell the fabric.

But just as he went around the corner, he saw in front of him a band of fighters. One of the fighters who looked liked the head of the band stood near a horse that was lying on the earth. The farmer heard the leader talking to his men.

“This horse would not last long. We just have to leave it. Just take care of it and catch up.” He jumped up on another horse and galloped off disappearing out of sight.

The other warriors were left talking to each other about what to do. They did not want to kill the horse but there seemed to be no other choice. One of them finally drew his sword.

The farmer pleaded with them not to do that. He said he was ready to look after the animal. He said they can have the bolt of silk for letting him care for the horse. They agreed to the deal and left the place quickly.

With the dying horse by his side, the farmer just remained there. He wondered if he had done things wrongly and whether he would never become rich. Suddenly he remembered the river he had seen on the way.

He made his way to the river and once there stripped off his shirt and dipped it in water to be able to feed the horse. He made his way back to the horse again and fed it by squeezing out the water into its mouth. After the water trickled in for a while, the horse reacted and soon became conscious. The farmer was then able to pull it up and make it stand.

Once the horse was up the farmer was able to lead it to the river. The animal drank to its satisfaction and there was also green grass nearby that it could feed on. With both that the horse became fully recharged.

So now the farmer owned the horse! The man and the animal traveled together, and the farmer had to run as the horse led the way. They traveled together for miles. Finally, as the sun was setting, the horse came to a halt in front of a big house. The animal pushed the farmer towards the gate when he finally drew level with it.

As the farmer approached the gate, the doors swung open and to his surprise, an old man appeared. The old man was rushing outside and was looking a little pale. He noticed the farmer and the horse standing by the gate.

The man queried the farmer what he wanted. The farmer replied that he was in need of a place to retire for the night. The old man in his turn said that he had to go to the town on an important matter and requested the farmer to be in charge of the house till such time that he returned. He said that his returning might get delayed.

The old man looked as if he was in a hurry, so the farmer told him he can take his horse. The old man was very grateful about it and immediately left with the horse. As he left, he said something totally unexpected to the farmer.

“If I do not return within three years, this house is yours.”

As you probably guessed, the old man never returned.

The farmer lived in the large house for the rest of his life with a land full of crops surrounded by kind neighbors happily ever after. But he never forgot to always give away the things he had.

I am grateful to you for reading this story. And how did you feel about it?

Maybe there is a key to something. When we can turn our ‘getting game’ into a ‘giving game’, our life often flows bringing more abundance. But it is not always easy to practice the old wisdom in our real life.

The following are the interesting principles we can see in the tale:

* When we are ready to give what others need, they will consider it more valuable than while we are trying to ‘trade’ it (as basically we are always hopeful of getting something out of that transaction), as then they only consider the price we ask for and tend to pay less.

* When there is no lasting attachment to the things we own, we will see that we have wider chances since we are able to free ourselves from what we have.

* When what life offers is not a bed of roses, instead of concentrating on the difficulty if we kept our attention on giving and sharing, life is sure to bring in good things later.

* When we try to ‘cash in’ what we have built up, thinking that “this is the best it gets”, because we think we may lose out it if we do not cash in now, our life’s growth often ends there. What if instead, we continued to be giving generously no matter what we owned or how physically wealthy we were or were not.

Giving is part of many successful people’s lives. When we give first, we have more chance of living a life of magnificence, ease and expansion.

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Hospitalist Jobs: A Rising Profession

June 10th, 2010 Comments off

The rise of hospitalist jobs has a lot to do with the rising cost of health care. Medical doctors are also stretched far beyond their means. And the use of a hospitalist has become a growing trend. They can step in where a doctor is not available. It is a career path that is seeing a lot of growth and visibility.

Around ten years ago, hospitalist began filling in for a patient’s physician. They are becoming a popular choice with many hospitals today. Medical doctors have experienced salary reductions as the result of the implementation of managed care within the health care systems such as HMOs. As a result of the reduced salaries, doctors have in turn reduced their hours and have limited their on-call hours and responsibilities.

To fill in the need for patient care, many hospitals are now turning to the hospitalist. Medical doctors and staff now utilize a hospitalist to care for their patients. They are in high demand especially during emergency rooms patient care or when a physician’s patient has been admitted to the hospital and the MD is not available. It is their job to communicate with the patient’s primary care physician on all aspects of the patient’s care while they are in the hospital.

The great advantage here is that the Hospitalists is oftentimes more familiar with the hospital, staff and its mode of operations. The hospital is the primary station for their particular practice and they know the routine and the patients involved.

Being on-site all of the time is a huge advantage for the hospitalist. They get to constantly interact with patients, allowing them the opportunity to really get to know them. The hospital’s doctors usually only see the patients during rounds. They only get to know medical statistics but not the actual patient.

Becoming a hospitalist requires a medical degree. Candidates must attend and complete medical school in order to receive their license. Upon finishing, they can move on to a specialty. The most popular being internal medicine. Other popular choices are family practice and pediatrics.

There are many different career options for a hospitalist. They can either reside at a particular hospital as an add on for a particular medical practice. In this case, they work all of the patients that come out of a certain private medical practice. Or they can operate independently and work with several different private practices. In either situation, they will always be in high demand. Medical doctors are always looking for the extra work.

Hospitalist jobs are on the rise. The earnings are high and the hours are usually manageable. Most patients only contact with this position is during an ER visit or a longer hospital stay. They will also provide a patient’s follow up care based solely on the primary care physicians medical plan. You should know how to effectively communicate with this medical professional to assure the best care. Patients should have a list of any medications they are currently taking. Anything special diets should also be relayed to the hospitalist on duty. And any other special needs like a therapist or special visiting nurse requirements will also be fulfilled by the hospitalist upon speaking with the patient’s medical doctor.

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Look To Litigation Support For The Winning Edge

May 9th, 2010 Comments off

Litigation support 101 is about helping lawyers and their legal staff adapt to the modern computer age. If you remember the days of spending hours in the law library researching your case then you need this program to bring you into the twenty first century of legal practice.

The law library is now on your computer screen thanks to paid services that bring the law library to you.

Online legal research changed the way lawyers practice law for good. But you need more than legal research on your computer screen to have the winning edge. You and your staff need to know how to use technology to your full advantage if you expect to beat the competition.

Automated litigation support is the umbrella phrase you will hear that describes the most basic word processor to the most complicated trial presentation programs used for the complex jury trials where juries must be helped to understand the facts of your case.

The automated system can be used for instance to line up deposition testimony with video presentations to create a verbal and visual presentation that grabs and keeps the jury’s attention.

Part of the challenge in complex jury trials is explaining complicated facts and concepts so that the jury will be able to understand the facts and issues of the case. When you can do this, you have a better chance of winning. The automated system is a must for the career litigation team that wants a winning edge.

However, this program is more than court room presentations. It also help you keep your cases in order. If you have lost hours looking for client files, notes or records, you realize the frustration, and you pledge each time to come up with a better organization system.

With this program you have all case information at your finger tips, right on your computer screen. You will have instant access to phone records, client documents, court filing deadlines, and all the information that pertains to you case.

The program was made for the lawyer and legal staff without a degree in computer science. It is easy to use; information is easy to input and easy to pull up which makes it different from other software that makes finding information difficult.

Much of the programs on the market were built by computer minded people who wanted to make products useful for lawyers, but do not think like lawyers.

This program was created with the legal field in mind in that it works the same way a lawyer would organize his or her case.

If you are a litigation veteran or if you are just starting out in this challenging area of law, this system will serve you well. If you are a paralegal and you know how to use this program, you will greatly increase your value in your law office.

Litigation support is the product made to serve the legal profession. You need it to have the edge to win in this technological age of law practice.

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Find Out More About The Mormon Church – Mormon Secrets

March 1st, 2010 Comments off

Understanding the Mormon church can be quite a difficult task because what seems to be on the surface is really not what it is when one starts to study it further. Many individuals will say that they are not aware of the Mormon church but if you have any knowledge of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints then yes you do know of the Mormons.

This was an organization that was actually formed in 1830. The biggest stance of this particular church is that they believe that they are the only restored Church of Christ and this was all to have taken place through a revelation of Joseph Smith there past leader. What the Mormons believe is that prior to the formation of this church that the entire world was caught up in massive religious confusion called the great apostasy. This was a time where people were living in darkness and it wasn’t till the Mormon church came along where their church put things back on track again.

One of the frustrations that the Mormon Church runs into is that they believe that too often there is misinformation about them and this is leading people to many misconceptions. This is the reason that most individuals that are not of the Mormon belief don’t understand what position they take in Christianity or their doctrine. In many ways the Mormon church uses the same vocabulary as what the Christian church believes as well. The biggest out of many discrepancies according to the Christian belief is that they believe that Joseph Smith was a God himself.

One of the things that the Mormon Church believe or promote is that there are many other religions that share the same doctrines as theirs and therefore are entitled to the same salvation. They will often in their approach to preaching their beliefs will encourage individuals to embrace the true Church of Jesus Christ. This not necessarily referring to the Church person with whom they are talking to but to the Latter-day Saints Church because they believe that this is the one that Jesus restored through Joseph Smith. They firmly believe that this is the concept that Jesus taught when he was here on earth and therefore has to be the true church.

It’s interesting to note that after the supposed prophecy of Joseph Smith he wrote 13 articles on faith. What these articles pertain to are now what the basic Mormon beliefs center on. Basically the beliefs are broke down into several categories such as the Church of Jesus Christ, gospel and principles, family purpose ,and the life and nature of God. The Mormons believe that after the last apostle died that there was no authority left to lead the Church and that all of the doctrines that Jesus had taught were changed over the years and eventually this led into living in darkness.

Naturally everybody is entitled to their own opinions and their own beliefs. The same is applicable to the Mormons. If they so choose to follow the doctrine of Joseph Smith then they have that right. Christianity in its authority takes offense that the Church of Latter-Day Saints is standing on the basics of Christianity and yet have taken all those basics and misconstrued them into what they feel is the true gospel.

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21 Questions To Ask A Guy

January 8th, 2010 Comments off

Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, “How to win friends and influence people” writes about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.

You must have been to a party and you’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that but you got 100% of the credit!

If you’re a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you’re a woman and want to pamper a guy’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because people who’re genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are most popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you’re a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?

3. If you had the chance to choose 5 people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?

7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?

8. What was the funniest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. What age were you when you had your first proper date and did you get to kiss them?

11. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?

12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?

14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?

Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!

15. Have you ever been caught naked in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?

19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?

20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?

21. Have you ever serial sex – with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?

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