21 Questions To Ask A Guy
Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, “How to win friends and influence people” writes about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
You must have been to a party and you’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that but you got 100% of the credit!
If you’re a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you’re a woman and want to pamper a guy’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because people who’re genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are most popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you’re a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you had the chance to choose 5 people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What was the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. What age were you when you had your first proper date and did you get to kiss them?
11. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?
14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever been caught naked in a public place – if so what were you doing?
16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever serial sex – with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?
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